tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post3981374884044356390..comments2023-10-24T08:45:41.999-04:00Comments on Take it one gigantic, earth-shattering crisis at a time.: Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptanceSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11746229523316282053noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-36263535734226272962009-03-12T20:47:00.000-04:002009-03-12T20:47:00.000-04:00Anon- Heart breaking....funny I dont think there i...Anon- Heart breaking....funny I dont think there is much left to break.<BR/><BR/>Amy- I think we all share certain parts of our brains. Its a sad, painful part...but we all share it.<BR/><BR/>Bubba- He is the only reason I still have strenght left. He keeps me going and he makes me smile every single day! My kid, my hero.<BR/><BR/>WFI- You have a solution????<BR/><BR/>Murgdan- I tried...<BR/><BR/>G- Sucks hard even!<BR/><BR/>Lea- Thanks. =)<BR/><BR/>X- Have I ever mentioned I am terrified of the dark? Seriously, I AM!<BR/><BR/>April- Thanks hun. I appreciate it. <BR/><BR/>Chelsea- Not defeat necessarily...I dont really know what to call it.<BR/><BR/>Kalina- It seems that everything is outside of my control though...how does one deal with that?<BR/><BR/>Jane- Not really giving up per say, just backing down and hiding for a while. <BR/><BR/>Murgdan- Thanks! I looked at it...and I got a headache. LOL! I am SO not computer savvy.<BR/><BR/>Casey- I used to be strong. Not so much now-a-days. I continue to try though. =)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746229523316282053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-32313568047300579902009-03-12T04:19:00.000-04:002009-03-12T04:19:00.000-04:00"you cant get money from a stone, and eventually I..."you cant get money from a stone, and eventually I'll be OK.<BR/>I will continue to be the best mother I can possibly be to my 8 year old, I will continue to work as hard as I can, I will hopefully return to the me I used to be. I don't like the me I have become. I want to laugh more, cry less and enjoy life. I want to be ME again. And I will. I can accept now, that I have no control of certain things. And it sucks. But I think I'm OK with it."<BR/><BR/>I have now quoted the only parts of your blog that I am willing to accept reading for you. It is ok that you need a break. It is ok for you to hurt, but not ok for you to ever give up hope or wishing or whatever you want to call it. You are a strong person Sarah. You will find your wayCaseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03411163656147344597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-35854182890250415982009-03-10T22:02:00.000-04:002009-03-10T22:02:00.000-04:00Hey! To find your keywords sign up for Google Anal...Hey! To find your keywords sign up for Google Analytics...<BR/><BR/>There is a section for keywords, and after just a little time it will start to show the ones that list your blog...'Murgdan'https://www.blogger.com/profile/00740095971968567222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-10845699618695394522009-03-10T07:45:00.000-04:002009-03-10T07:45:00.000-04:00Don't accept defeat yet. I'm eleven years older t...Don't accept defeat yet. I'm eleven years older than you and hell, I'm not giving up yet!Jane Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14515914204369553638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-68085523708373534222009-03-09T18:36:00.000-04:002009-03-09T18:36:00.000-04:00Things outside of our control are the hardest to a...Things outside of our control are the hardest to accept. <BR/>Wish things were easier...<BR/>HUGSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-69480457191070702572009-03-09T17:03:00.000-04:002009-03-09T17:03:00.000-04:00You have every right to feel every one of those th...You have every right to feel every one of those things... but I believe it is too soon to accept defeat...Chelsea Lietzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07971852083538754536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-17249999721638400392009-03-09T15:56:00.000-04:002009-03-09T15:56:00.000-04:00This was SO heartfelt and poignant. I'm so very so...This was SO heartfelt and poignant. I'm so very sorry you are going through all of this. I do think about you often, Sarah!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-18217151095488384852009-03-09T15:50:00.000-04:002009-03-09T15:50:00.000-04:00It can be a dark place sometimes.It can be a dark place sometimes.Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11044403947730363259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-57444173468122475732009-03-09T14:06:00.000-04:002009-03-09T14:06:00.000-04:00I agree with WFI. I'm hoping your solution will pr...I agree with WFI. I'm hoping your solution will present itself soon. I'm thinking about you.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06835868086400111345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-91422477761619763662009-03-09T07:16:00.000-04:002009-03-09T07:16:00.000-04:00I'm really feeling for you Sarah :(Glad that you'r...I'm really feeling for you Sarah :(<BR/><BR/>Glad that you're feeling closer to the 'acceptance' part, but you're right that it truly sucks.Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09503634190349955673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-63730062298367893942009-03-08T22:17:00.000-04:002009-03-08T22:17:00.000-04:00Excellent post. That just about sums it all up...p...Excellent post. That just about sums it all up...perfectly.'Murgdan'https://www.blogger.com/profile/00740095971968567222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-60630447567428042982009-03-08T16:49:00.000-04:002009-03-08T16:49:00.000-04:00You forgot the final one. Solution. It is too ear...You forgot the final one. Solution. It is too early to give up, you'll find away.Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07336643483655255680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-47004963088639075852009-03-08T16:30:00.000-04:002009-03-08T16:30:00.000-04:00I too have thought the majority of what u have wri...I too have thought the majority of what u have written at one time or another...<BR/>I hate having to go through this, i hate that we all have to go through it. <BR/>Stay strong for your son, i pray this happens for you !> x x xDonnamarie xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03483189997334685651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-3898000233160559502009-03-08T12:40:00.000-04:002009-03-08T12:40:00.000-04:00I think we are having the same thoughts in two sep...I think we are having the same thoughts in two separate brains. I am slowly accepting it too. I think out of pocket we've spent about $18K so far. It makes me sick to think of spending any more for something that should cost NOTHING. Not that it's about the money...but....I know you get what I'm saying. It's hard to know what to do with all of this energy, obsession, blood, sweat,and tears we've but into trying to have a baby. I feel like an empty shell of my former self. It sucks that anyone else is experiencing this, and I know you are. That makes me even sadder :-(Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13477204676792146384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182319861408261183.post-1625897427714674922009-03-08T11:39:00.000-04:002009-03-08T11:39:00.000-04:00Your post is heart breaking.But you speak such tru...Your post is heart breaking.<BR/>But you speak such truth, and your right the only thing you can do is be the best mother you can be to the wonderful child you have.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com