Saturday, January 22, 2011

Why do I hurt?

When I asked WHY I was hurting so badly and why I am the only one hurting, a friend of mine told me this:

Because you love. You put yourself out there, the only way to be. Some people are somehow able to up and leave a situation without feeling it. They are not capable of really loving anything. You will survive. You will love and you will be loved. Its not your fault you feel things to your core. You are human- sensitive. Some people never feel what you feel because they can't. You have nothing to hide. You can stand there and know you live up front, real, and sincerely. I'm very sorry you have to feel like this, and it may be cold comfort, but it serves as an affirmation of who you are. You're a good person.

And somehow, it made me feel a little better.

6 comments:

Courtney said...

You seem to be a very passionate person. I am sorry you are hurting. But your friend is right YOU WILL SURVIVE!

911 and the Randomness.. said...

Glad you heard that! It's very true. The ability to love so deeply is rare and only the best people can do it. And while it hurts so bad now, you will be able to love again later.

911R

Amy said...

Those were very wise words. I wish I could take the hurt away :(

Jane G said...

Sarah, I haven't been blogging much lately and only read about your breakup just now. I am so sorry, honey. I really wish I had more words of comfort for you. I have been through a divorce myself and I know how bloody hard a knock it is. Stay strong xx

Megs said...

Sarah, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this...you are definitely a very passionate person and I can tell that you have a heart like no other! Hang in there honey, you will definitely make it through :) Praying for you and your little man...

CarmenSays said...

oh babe, just read your last few posts, i'm so sorry you're going through this *hugs u* what your friend said is beautiful and i'm glad my mush put a smile on your face right now lol sending you huge hugs! xxx